Kim inacting one of our jokes about the potential to lose na eye on that part of the staircase.
Only one more day without Kim. What I miss about Kim isn't just the around the house stuff, and the parenting stuff, but I miss the friend stuff. I miss having someone to talk through my day with, bounce ideas off of, etc. I miss having a partner. Kim is my quiet, steady, emotional rock. I am verbal, expressive, creative, funny, scattered, slightly high strung and anxious. Kim is quiet, thoughtful, thinks before he speaks, intelligent, analytical, and diligent. He likes to see all his stuff (i.e. a bit messy), and I crave neatness, but am still messy. I am generally a positive thinker, Kim is a realist. He is the jam to my bread, the yin to my yang, he balances me. I feel most unbalanced without him.
But only today without him, and then he will be home tomorrow around 3:30. Granted I leave the next day for the weekend, but at least I know I can call him to talk whenever I want. Only a day.
That thing about him being messy and needing to see all his stuff and you craving neatness but still being kind of messy is Gene and I *exactly*. The man lines his shoes up every night as he's getting ready to go to work. I kid. You. Not. And he just leaves them there. On the bed! I gave up trying to reclaim the bed so I just sleep beside them because I know if I try to put them away he'll just get them out again.
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